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Nature’s Healing Code

Amy Olmedo:

Nature’s Healing Code

After a series of life-altering setbacks, Amy sought solace in the shifting tides of the Cape Fear River. What started as a simple escape became a profound journey of self-discovery, resilience, and unexpected opportunities.

Bio

Hi, I’m Amy. Do you have a minute to listen to what is in my heart? When I was young, I dreamed of the perfect life: marrying the best man, raising three beautiful children, becoming a doctor, and living happily ever after. But life had different plans. At first, I thought I had it all. But, the person in the mirror did not look familiar to me. I no longer recognized myself, or at least the version of myself I had created.

In my mid-thirties, I sat by the pool with friends, watching our children play. According to everyone, we were living “the life.” Yet, an overwhelming dread washed over me. I thought, “If this is life, I don’t want it anymore. You can keep it for yourself.” I had been enduring emotional abuse, and I knew I needed to leave my marriage. But, I did not know how. When I finally gathered enough strength to leave, the devastation that was thrust upon me was unimaginable.

Then, a car accident nearly killed me, leaving me with Traumatic Brain Injury and intense physical pain, yet I appeared fine. I had to fight, while hiding my struggles, to protect my children. Over the years, I did my best to rebuild my life, but a second car accident left me broken and suffering, yet again. My body was physically and emotionally shutting down as I developed Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.

In my forties, I longed for peace, wishing to reconcile the pain. Then, a spiritual renewal brought me back to life. Through arduous struggles, I rediscovered my purpose. Nature has always been my sanctuary and is where I feel closest to God. I knew I needed a fresh start. But where and with who? In my fifties, I discovered everything in life has led me to this moment in time, my time.

White Heron, A Creation Story is the result of my embracing all of who I am and all of my experiences through my journey. It is my story and a faithful companion for anyone on their own journey of self-discovery, healing and transformation. Come, take my hand, I am waiting for you.

Topics

  • How nature became her greatest teacher after personal crisis
  • Recognizing the patterns of adversity and taking ownership of change
  • The role of intuition and listening in healing and personal growth
  • Learning from the tides: how the shifting river mirrored her own transformation
  • The power of solitude and reflection in rebuilding after setbacks
  • Working with a shaman and the lessons it taught her
  • Ancient healing practices and their relevance in modern times
  • The emotional and physical connection in trauma recovery
  • How she transitioned from personal healing to creating a retreat for others
  • The unexpected opportunities that emerged when she surrendered to change

Guiding Questions

  • You’ve experienced multiple life-altering setbacks—what was the moment that made you realize something needed to change?
  • Can you share how your time in nature and discovering fossils became a turning point for you?
  • What did the shifting tides of the Cape Fear River teach you about life and resilience?
  • You mentioned working with a shaman—how did that shape your healing process?
  • How do you differentiate between adversity that is simply hard and adversity that carries a deeper lesson?
  • What role did self-love and self-discovery play in your healing journey?
  • You talk about the emotional-physical connection in trauma—how can people begin to untangle that for themselves?
  • What inspired you to create a retreat to help others through adversity?
  • Can you share an example of someone you’ve helped and the transformation they experienced?
  • What advice would you give to someone currently facing a life upheaval and feeling lost?

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Cycling Through Resilience

Melo Calarco:

Cycling Through Resilience

When all his friends backed out, Melo Calarco embarked on a two-year solo journey, cycling across the world and living with indigenous communities. From near-death experiences to life-changing revelations, he discovered the power of the mind in overcoming adversity—wisdom he now brings to leaders and high performers.

Bio

As a TEDx Speaker and multi award-winning author, Melo loves sharing his passion with the world speaking about wellbeing, high-performance, resilience, mindfulness, mental health and so much more.

His workshops and keynotes have been described as ‘truly transformational’ drawing from his unique life lessons while cycling over 30,000km across five continents, where Melo learned to manage stress, build mental endurance, and overcome many challenges, including near-death experiences.

He now shares this profound experience with global companies and high performers to help them operate at their best, without the risk of burning out.

Topics

  • How extreme travel tests and builds resilience
  • Mindfulness techniques for navigating high-stress situations
  • Lessons from living with indigenous communities and monks
  • Overcoming burnout before it takes over your life
  • How to reframe adversity into personal growth
  • The connection between physical endurance and mental strength
  • Lessons from solo travel that apply to leadership
  • Meditation as a tool for survival and success
  • The psychology of risk-taking and high performance
  • Finding purpose through extreme challenges

Guiding Questions

  • What motivated you to embark on a solo cycling journey around the world?
  • Can you share one of the most intense moments where your resilience was tested?
  • How did living with indigenous communities and monks shape your perspective on life?
  • What role did mindfulness play in helping you navigate extreme situations?
  • How do the lessons from your travels translate into the corporate world?
  • What’s a common misconception people have about burnout and resilience?
  • Can you walk us through the storm incident where meditation saved your life?
  • What advice do you have for high achievers who ignore early signs of burnout?
  • What did you learn about fear and decision-making when faced with life-threatening situations?
  • How can someone incorporate resilience-building practices into their daily routine?

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When Business Falls Apart

Jordan Aspen:

When Business Falls Apart

Jordan Aspen and her husband built a thriving virtual events business in response to the pandemic, but when life and circumstances changed, their entire livelihood was at stake. Facing the reality of shutting down their business, they had to redefine success, identity, and trust in what was next.

Bio

Jordan Aspen resides in the beautiful Texas Hill Country with her husband Paul and their four young children. After losing everything to toxic mold including her health, Jordan seeks to build a world where everyone has a community of companions to help them rise, whether they feel beaten-down or ambitious.

She founded Modern Agora to teach skills and provide technology for leaders to connect authentically and communicate effectively with each other first, and then their audiences.

Topics

  • Navigating business closure and identity shifts
  • The emotional toll of letting go of a business
  • Entrepreneurship as a family: balancing business and home life
  • Adapting to changing market trends and economic shifts
  • The rise and fall of virtual events post-pandemic
  • Trusting faith and intuition in career transitions
  • Overcoming financial uncertainty as an entrepreneur
  • Lessons learned from building a business during crisis
  • Pivoting gracefully when things don’t go as planned
  • The unexpected silver linings of failure

Guiding Questions

  • What was the driving force behind starting your virtual events business?
  • When did you first realize that the business model was no longer sustainable?
  • How did it feel to let go of something that had become part of your identity?
  • What were the biggest challenges you faced in making the decision to shut down?
  • How did your faith guide you through this transition?
  • What lessons did you learn about resilience and adaptability?
  • How did this experience change your perspective on success and failure?
  • Looking back, is there anything you would have done differently?
  • What advice do you have for entrepreneurs facing major pivots in their business?
  • What’s next for you, and how has this experience shaped your future plans?

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Owning My Freedom

Carol Williams:

Owning My Freedom

Carol Williams shares how she escaped a toxic marriage, navigated years of legal battles, and rebuilt her life as a single mom and business owner.

Bio

Hard work has driven my success, from excelling in school to running half marathons, fighting wildfires, and building a business during a recession. Recently, I’ve combined intuition with productivity, reflected in my Productivity Cake—a framework for balance and success. Listening to the Voice Within—God—is life’s greatest secret.

My purpose is helping others uncover their talents and live their purpose. As “Courageous Carol,” I empower clients to achieve the impossible, creating ripple effects of success. I believe life, like a cake recipe, evolves with added and subtracted ingredients, but core values remain, making success a continuous, transformative process.

Topics

  • Recognizing toxic patterns and breaking free.
  • Lessons learned from living in a constant state of fear.
  • The shadow side of resilience: when persistence works against you.
  • The emotional journey of starting over.
  • Building a support system as a single mom.

Guiding Questions

  • What was the turning point that gave you the courage to leave your marriage?
  • How did the constant fear shape your approach to life and work?
  • How did your perception of resilience change throughout this journey?
  • What role did self-care play in your transformation?
  • How has your experience shaped your coaching philosophy?

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Engineering My Escape Plan

Ali Mueller:

Engineering My Escape Plan

Work was Ali Mueller’s identity—until a nine-month health crisis made her question everything. As she searched for solutions, she uncovered financial knowledge that changed her trajectory, empowering her to leave corporate America and help others do the same.

Bio

If you are missing out on additional cashflow WHEN WOULD YOU LIKE TO KNOW?

I believe that you deserve to know all the different ways you can increase your retirement income even though most financial advisors only get paid to help you accumulate assets.

Why? Because I’ve spent over 30 years working as an Engineer identifying opportunities to increase profits by improving supply chains.

How you choose to take income in retirement will determine your success.

I joined the Air Force my first year at the University of Nebraska to help pay for college. Once accepted into the USAF Electronic Warfare School, I was granted Top Secret security clearance which gave me entrance into the Defense Industry in Aerospace and led to a position in the US Air Force Command Center for the Advanced Cruise Missile Program (ACM).

I was later offered a position by a NASA contractor and I spent the next 30+ years working on international projects to help companies optimize supply chains.

It was rewarding to help companies increase their profits by optimizing their global distribution systems

and supply chains.

After a career in the Defense and Gas Industries, I decided to use my specialized skills for my own benefit by optimizing my own financial plan.

I applied the same skills/experience of my career and soon realized the significance of the impact I could make on helping others do the same.

With the same skill set I had used for optimizing corporate supply chains, I began optimizing individual retirement income plans. I referred to it as a “Money Supply Chain™️.” I wanted to help others o make their Money Supply Chain™️ last for the rest of THEIR LIVES.

If you would like to learn more about how to optimize your own Money Supply Chain™️ for life, click on the link to schedule a 15-minute introductory call.

If you want organize your “money brain’ so that what you really want aligns with your money- watch this 5 minute video. www.yourfvp.com

https://www.talk2ali.com/schedule15minutes

Topics

  • The dangers of workaholism and what happens when your body forces you to stop
  • Lessons from an engineer: How analytical thinking transformed my financial future
  • The financial strategies corporations don’t want you to know
  • How a sudden illness forced me to rethink everything about money and work
  • Why traditional retirement plans aren’t enough—and what you should do instead
  • Breaking free from the corporate grind: A step-by-step guide
  • The real cost of prioritizing work over your personal life
  • How financial literacy can give you control over your future
  • What I wish I knew about money before I burned out
  • Transitioning from a high-powered job to entrepreneurship: What nobody tells you

Guiding Questions

  • Can you take us back to the moment everything changed for you on that work trip?
  • What made you realize you couldn’t keep working the way you had been?
  • How did you start learning about financial independence, and what shocked you the most?
  • What were the biggest mindset shifts you had to make to leave your corporate career?
  • Why do you think these financial strategies aren’t widely taught in schools or workplaces?
  • How did your experience as an engineer shape the way you approached financial planning?
  • What were the biggest fears or doubts you had before making the leap?
  • What’s one piece of advice you’d give to someone stuck in the workaholic cycle?
  • How has your life changed since leaving the corporate world?
  • What are some practical first steps for someone looking to take control of their finances?

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Through My Lens

Michelle Steiner:

Through My Lens

From childhood struggles with dexterity to becoming an artist through photography, Michelle’s journey is a testament to how unexpected paths can lead to powerful self-discovery.

Bio

Michelle Steiner lives with an invisible disability. From the start many people have told her she could not go to college, get her bachelor’s degree, get published or have the job she wanted. She has been able to do all of that and more. Michelle graduated from Slippery Rock University with a bachelor’s degree in Community Programing. She has articles published on The Mighty, Non-Verbal Learning Project, Dyscalculia Blog, The Reluctant Spoonie, Kalopina Collective, Imagine the World as One Magazine, and Word Gathering. Her photographs were featured in Word Gathering Independent and Work Ready. She works as a paraeducator in a school with students with disabilities. She lives in Pennsylvania with her husband and two cats.

Topics

  • How a disability shaped Michelle’s artistic perspective
  • The power of slowing down and noticing details in life
  • Overcoming self-doubt and embracing hidden talents
  • The role of mentors and encouragers in personal growth
  • How limitations can lead to unexpected opportunities
  • The emotional journey of feeling like an outsider
  • Learning to see beauty in everyday life
  • The therapeutic nature of art and creativity
  • How photography became a form of self-expression
  • Shifting perspectives—seeing struggles as blessings

Guiding Questions

  1. How did your early experiences with a learning disability shape your view of yourself?
  2. What was the moment that made you realize you had an artistic eye?
  3. How did being unable to drive impact your perspective on life?
  4. What role did mentors and supportive communities play in your journey?
  5. How has photography changed the way you process emotions?
  6. What advice would you give to someone struggling with self-doubt?
  7. Can you share a specific moment when you realized your perspective had shifted?
  8. How do you now view the challenges you once saw as setbacks?
  9. What lessons has your journey taught you about resilience?
  10. How can others learn to see the hidden beauty in their own lives?

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The Pivot That Saved Me

Jess Wilson:

The Pivot That Saved Me

Jess Wilson never expected a thyroid cancer diagnosis to be the thing that saved her business. But through resilience, humor, and a newfound sense of clarity, she turned what could have been a tragedy into a turning point.

Bio

Jess is a remote branding and headshot photographer with over 20 years of experience, helping solopreneurs save time and money while capturing professional images that elevate their brands—all from the comfort of their own space.

As a mom, grandmother, fire wife, and thyroid cancer survivor, Jess brings a unique, compassionate perspective to her work, making photo sessions not only professional but also fun and stress-free. Her journey is one of resilience, creativity, and heart.

Topics

  • The long road to a correct medical diagnosis
  • How cancer shifted her mindset on life and business
  • The connection between health, stress, and entrepreneurship
  • Alternative healing and integrative health approaches
  • Remote photography and adapting a creative business to new technology
  • Overcoming fear and learning to let go of what doesn’t matter
  • The power of community and connection in healing
  • Balancing personal health with running a business
  • Reinventing a business after a health crisis
  • How to trust your gut when doctors don’t listen

Guiding Questions

  • What was the first sign that something was wrong with your health?
  • How did it feel to go through so many doctors before getting a diagnosis?
  • What was your initial reaction when you found out it was thyroid cancer?
  • How did your health journey change the way you approach life and business?
  • Can you share the moment you realized you needed to pivot your photography business?
  • What was the biggest mental shift you experienced during this time?
  • How did your approach to health change after your diagnosis?
  • What role did community and connection play in your healing process?
  • How did you develop your remote photography business, and what makes it unique?
  • What advice do you have for others facing a major life pivot?

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When Home Became Toxic

Jordan Aspen:

When Home Became Toxic

After losing a pregnancy, welcoming a child, and then falling into a debilitating illness, Jordan found herself fighting for survival. But the answer wasn’t in medicine—it was in walking away from everything she owned.

Bio

Jordan Aspen resides in the beautiful Texas Hill Country with her husband Paul and their four young children. After losing everything to toxic mold including her health, Jordan seeks to build a world where everyone has a community of companions to help them rise, whether they feel beaten-down or ambitious.

She founded Modern Agora to teach skills and provide technology for leaders to connect authentically and communicate effectively with each other first, and then their audiences.

Topics

  • The hidden dangers of toxic mold and its impact on health
  • How misdiagnosis can delay real solutions for health struggles
  • The emotional and spiritual toll of chronic illness
  • Rebuilding life from scratch after losing everything
  • The role of faith in navigating personal crisis
  • Postpartum depression vs. undiagnosed medical conditions
  • The connection between home environments and mental health
  • How marriage can be a source of strength in hardship
  • Letting go of material possessions and finding clarity
  • Lessons learned from losing it all and starting over

Guiding Questions

  • Can you take us back to the moment you first realized something was deeply wrong?
  • What was the emotional and physical toll of being misdiagnosed?
  • How did discovering toxic mold change everything for you?
  • What was the hardest part about walking away from your home and belongings?
  • How did this experience impact your faith and your relationship with God?
  • What misconceptions do people have about toxic mold and its effects?
  • How did your husband support you through this time?
  • Looking back, what signs do you wish you had recognized sooner?
  • What advice do you have for someone experiencing an unexplained health crisis?
  • How has this experience reshaped your view of home, health, and resilience?

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Beyond the Hamster Wheel

Jason Zygadlo:

Beyond the Hamster Wheel

When Jason Zygadlo was diagnosed with Hodgkin’s lymphoma, his life as a high-achieving medical device salesman came to a screeching halt. Faced with his own mortality, he was forced to reevaluate what truly mattered—and ultimately, he left behind comfort and stability to build a new path that aligned with his purpose.

Bio

With nearly two decades of experience in the competitive world of medical device sales, Jason has mastered the art of standing out in a crowded market and being different. Now, after almost 20 years of helping healthcare professionals navigate complex purchasing decisions, he has turned his expertise towards a new venture: Build.Your.Own.Brand. This innovative company is dedicated to empower individuals and groups to embrace their uniqueness and make a lasting impact by being creative, different and memorable.

A proud graduate of Kent State University, Jason combines a deep understanding of strategic positioning with a passion for creativity. Build.Your.Own.Brand. offers a fresh perspective on personal and organizational branding, helping clients break out of the sea of sameness from the ordinary and leave a memorable mark.

In his spare time, Jason serves on the National Board of Directors of the Alumni Association at Kent State University. Additionally, he is also still involved in numerous ways with his fraternity, Alpha Tau Omega. Jason is the founder of ZIGGYSTRONG…a non profit that helps cancer patients during their treatment and beyond. Jason is also a cancer survivor who wanted to give back to the community. Community service is his passion along with Lake Erie, college football, but mostantly, his family.

Ready to redefine what it means to be unforgettable? Connect with Jason and discover how Build.Your.Own.Brand. can help you or your organization stand out in today’s crowded landscape.

Topics

  • How a cancer diagnosis reshaped my definition of success
  • The emotional rollercoaster of misdiagnosis and self-advocacy in healthcare
  • Breaking free from a stable career to pursue true purpose
  • Comfort as the enemy of personal and professional growth
  • The mindset shift required to start over after a life-altering event
  • How storytelling and personal branding can elevate careers
  • Lessons from leaving a high-paying job to build something from scratch
  • The balance of entrepreneurship and single parenthood
  • How to take a leap of faith—even without a crisis pushing you
  • Resilience, reinvention, and learning to bet on yourself

Guiding Questions

  • Take us back to the moment you read your diagnosis—what was going through your mind?
  • Before the diagnosis, did you ever imagine yourself leaving medical sales?
  • What were the biggest internal battles you faced while deciding to change careers?
  • How did you know it was time to finally take the leap and start your own business?
  • What advice do you have for people who feel “stuck” in their careers but are afraid to leave?
  • How did being a single dad impact the way you handled your diagnosis and career shift?
  • What was the hardest part about walking away from a stable, well-paying career?
  • You talk about “comfort being the enemy of growth”—what does that mean to you now?
  • What are the biggest lessons you’ve learned about resilience through this experience?
  • How can someone start building their personal brand and telling their story effectively?

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Leadership Beyond the Code

Shane Emmons:

Leadership Beyond the Code

Going from coding solo to managing 30 engineers overnight was a crash course in leadership for Shane Emmons. He quickly learned that success wasn’t about technical perfection—it was about fostering collaboration, aligning vision, and reducing fear-based decision-making

Bio

Shane Emmons is the Founder and CEO of Swept.AI, a company challenging the way we think about the management of artificial intelligence. With 25 years in the tech industry, Shane brings decades of deep expertise in data science and modeling, combined with 15 years of hands-on experience as a startup engineer and executive. His journey through the startup landscape includes early failures, 9-figure successes, and every waystation in between.

An active voice in technology discourse, Shane shares his rich insights through blogging and LinkedIn, focusing on critical issues such as AI ethics, organizational design, and technology and businesses strategies. At Swept.AI, he is at the forefront of developing advanced systems for validating and supervising AI agents, setting new benchmarks for ROI, reliability, and transparency in the field.

Shane’s leadership style is profoundly influenced by ‘teal’ thinking, which prioritizes adaptability, shared purpose, and self-management, a mindset cultivated under the mentorship of his long-time coach and friend, Dr. Keith Merron.

Topics

  • The transition from individual contributor to executive leadership
  • Why technical skills don’t make you a great leader
  • The role of fear in decision-making and how to manage it
  • How to lead through influence instead of authority
  • The importance of context-sharing in leadership
  • Lessons from managing an already-established team
  • How volunteering can develop leadership skills
  • Breaking down big goals to reduce stress and increase success
  • Why leadership is more about communication than execution
  • Learning to navigate office politics as a technical leader

Guiding Questions

  • What was the biggest challenge when you moved from engineer to executive?
  • How did your perspective on leadership change after managing a team?
  • Can you share a moment when you realized leadership wasn’t just about technical skills?
  • You mentioned fear plays a huge role in leadership—how did you learn to manage it?
  • What strategies helped you transition from “doer” to “influencer” in your company?
  • How do you approach making decisions when team members have different incentives?
  • What’s the hardest lesson you’ve learned about managing people?
  • Why do you believe volunteering can be a great leadership training ground?
  • How can leaders create a culture that allows for small failures without fear?
  • What advice would you give to someone moving from technical expert to business leader?

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